Nothing hurts like lies
Doesn’t matter if they’re small, like a guy saying that he was studying when he was actually out with friends. Or big ones like him chatting with a girl online but denying it infront of you.
It all just adds up to the mess. There’s frustration, uneasiness, turmoil. And the guy just doesn’t get it.
Example, if you tell him to get something for you. He would postpone it saying that he is out of cash but in reality he is just too lazy to get it for you.
Same goes with you making plans for the weekend and him making excuses, he may be too tired but he would lie and say that his aunt is in a hospital.
For him its “i was trying not to hurt you so I covered it up” but he doesn’t realize that his lies hurt much more than the harsh truth.
Lies kill the trust. Without trust there is no relationship.
New life!
On 13th I chatted with him and on 19th morning at 6am he proposed to me. Since then i’v been on cloud 9. past is haunting me but i want to forget it. i wanna look hot. right nw i m shit scared to meet him, i hav an extreme inferiority complex…
Never date a guy who can’t express his love
It may seem so cute at first, you running around telling your friends, “He’s so cute, he’s so macho, he’s a typical guy… he never shows any emotions… hehe”
Guys who can’t show emotions…. They can’t give you the naughty look when you’re all dolled up for a party. They can’t comfort you when you’re sad. You’ll be always wondering what he’s thinking.
You’ll never know when they’re happy for you. You’ll never know when they’re mad. Well you’ll KNOW when they’re mad, when you’re in a middle of a fight!
Is it one month of dating a guy and you’re still confused whether he likes you? If the answer is yes then beware. If a guy is unable to express his love for you, if he doesn’t shower you with attention, laugh at all your silly jokes, smiles at you for no reason then sorry to say but he’s not worth your time.
My ex never spent anything on me
From day 1 it was 50/50 and it became a habit. If he paid for, say, my dinner he would take a note of it and would either ask for cash later or would not pay for his dinner next time we’re out. Worse, he would always run out of cash by the end of the month and I would have to pay for his stuff which he would promise to pay next month. I don’t remember him ever spending on me. I would have to beg for him to pay for my food/movie even on special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries. I remember I had to pay for our lunch on my birthday.
He never planned a dinner or anything. He would always be uninterested in going out with me, it would almost always my plan. I would cry and beg him to go out with me, I would even pay for his food and movie just so that he can hang out with me. He always refused going out with me because he did not want to spend. It was humiliating for me that my guy can’t even pay for his own dinner for me but I never cared as I loved him. He was the first guy I loved and he was the cruelest man I had met.
I was so blind and stupid to think he loved me. He never did anything for me. He was manipulative and blamed me for everything. He would make me feel guilty for all our fights. He was rude and disrespectful but he never realized it. He said he couldn’t change because that’s the way he is.
On my birthday he did not get me anything. Not even dinner.
He said he believed in equality so didn’t pay for me but I always felt that it was just an excuse.
He dumped me last week. Since then I haven’t heard from him. He told me not to contact him again. I heard that he’s enjoying with his friends. I came to know that he’s spending a lot of money with his friends. They go out everyday, watch a movie every week.
I have realized that everything was a lie.
I broke up with my boyfriend but now I am feeling so lonely and bored
He was so crazy, got mad at me for silly things like talking to best girl friend. He always felt like I am ignoring him. He never did anything for me but expected me to do everything for him. He didn’t even do anything on my bday, just wished me! He had a crazy temper problem and he would make me cry all the time coz of it. He didn’t feel anything when I cried, he would go on being mad at me while I cried. He never accepted his faults, the blame was always on me. He was very irresponsible and childish and no one trusted. He blamed everyone else for the failures in his life.
Whenever I broke up with him he became the fake nice guy for sometime but soon the emotional abuse would start.
7 months, 22 days later we have broken up. Mainly coz I couldn’t take his abusive behavior. I didn’t like anyone controlling my life. He didn’t like me speaking back to him.
He seems very happy after the break up. I am too.
But I am totally not used to being alone in my room at 6pm with my laptop. I am usually hanging out with him till late at night.
I guess it will take time to heal. But I am so happy I haven’t cried today! When I was with him, I cried everyday.
I am gonna be so happy. I know it. 
I break up with my boyfriend every week
It’s a sad cycle. He’s mean to me, I get frustrated, then I want to break up and then he magically transforms into the nicest guy and we make up. I am guessing that this is a very bad thing for me and that he has an abusive personality. But it could also mean that I am extremely unstable and moody.
Valentine’s coming up and I don’t want to screw up. I am trying not get to mad at him for trivial stuff. I don’t think we’re gonna get gifts for each other or anything, I just hope we get to spend some time together. It would hurt if I have to be all alone on the 14th.
I dumped my nice boyfriend for a bad boy
He was too nice. Too simple. Too boring. No drama. No complaints from him.
This new guy was famous for being mean, macho and had a sports bike. He never showed any signs of liking me. Didn’t respect that I am already with a guy, he just proposed to me! He said he liked me since last yr, but he had a gf last yr, isnt that emotional cheating? Anyway, I didn’t think too much. He was cute, exciting and had a bike. I dumped the nice guy.
All guys are perverts, some just show it more than others
So very true. I know a guy who’s easily the nicest guy I’ve met. A complete gentleman. Every girl respects and adores him but after having a long conversation on this topic he revealed to me how big of a pervert he is and how every guy is one but some guys are just good at hiding it.
My boyfriend is too nice for me
He….
- Takes me out everyday, sometimes we go out several times a day.
- He calls me up everyday, we talk for 2-4 hours everyday on the phone.
- He tells me I am gorgeous, beautiful, cute….
- He wants me to eat a lot and doesn’t like when I diet. He tells me I’ll become cuter with the weight I gain.
- He tells me that I might not be perfect but I’m perfect for him.
- He wants to spend as much time as possible with me. Wants to accompany me even to the grocery store or to the bank or to the library.
- He doesn’t mind if I go out with other guys (not as dates of course) He says he’s very secure.
- He carries my bag, books, etc.
- He cries when I’m not well. (mmm I was really unwell)
- He makes an effort to be friends with my friends.
- His best friend knows about us and we go out for double dates, its fun!
- He tells me I love you several times a day. It took him a long time to say it though. He said it after he really felt it.
- And even after all of this, he has NEVER touched me. He told me that he doesn’t want to do anything that will make me uncomfortable.
And we’ve been dating for six months, know each other for 10 months. And by dating I don’t mean meeting each other once in a while or as in chatting on the net. We never did that. Since the last six months we’ve been seeing each other every single day, for hours and hours each day. He knows everything about me, all my faults and weaknesses. I don’t think anyone knows me better than him, not even my Mom.
I thought he’d be less nice as time progresses but he’s just getting nicer and more loving each day.
But sadly I am the same. I don’t think I can catch up with him emotionally. He’s way more mature than me. Whenever I see him, I feel like touching him and doing naughty things to him, but somehow magically he can sit with me for hours calmly chatting about random stuff without feeling such urges. He likes to talk a lot with me but I’m like.. eh ok .. ok.. hmm…
I’m like the bad guy in this relationship.
New Goal: Be Mean to Guys
I have always been a “sweet” girl to guys. I am friendly, nice, I talk a lot and I am always smiling. You can call me anytime of the day and I’ll talk and I’ll giggle at your silliest joke. But apparently this behavior is mistaken for flirting and many guys in college think I’m easy because I am like this. They expect good looking girls to be mean and bitchy and to show them a ton of attitude. Ok I just called myself good looking, big deal! I know I’m good looking. But I wasn’t few years back. I was fat, had glasses and braces, no confidence and was teased a lot for my weight. I guess that’s the reason I am friendly. So basically I am a hot girl with the personality of a dorky fat girl.
I don’t feel shy to walk up to a guy and talk to him. If I was some dorky girl he would have probably taken me seriously and had a normal conversation about college, sports etc. But now the conversation deviates to “do you like this guy”… “do you have a bf” or something on those lines.
A good guy friend told me that guys talk about me a lot saying that I am a big flirt. I don’t get it!?
I have decided to be mean to these jerks that think I am flirty with them. I mean WTF? These are the below average looking stupid guys whom I wouldn’t ever consider dating.
